Winning does not start around you... it begins inside you. Happiness begins between your ears. Your mind is the Drawing Room for your future experiences. What happens in your mind will happens in time. Mind- management should be the first focus for over comers.
Develop decisiveness.
Few people do, have you ever noticed the hesitation in drivers at a four - way stop? I have seen people sit for thirty seconds at a four way stop waiting for everyone else to make the first move. I have sat at restaurants with people who could not decide in twenty minutes what food they wanted to eat, some have even asked the waitress what she thought they should eat.
Decisiveness can be cultivated. Think about what you want. Give it a thought. Invest the seed of time. contemplate. Meditate on it. What do you want to be happening in your life ten years from today? What are the ideal circumstances for your retirement? what do you dream of becoming? do you have a personal list of goals and dreams? have you taken the time to write them out in details?. some things never change about you. what are there? Take a sheet of paper, and as quickly and thoroughly as possible, begin to document the things about yourself that have been pretty consistent over the years. Go ahead do it now. ( Example : Have you always loved books? Animals? Talking?
Now after you have done this, you will begin to get a fairly accurate and specific photograph of certain things that you want in your life, around you daily. You will also get an awareness of the quality of life you are struggling to experience.
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